- 1. What is Lolita Fashion?
- 2. What Lolita Fashion is Not
- 3. 5 Tips for Being in Lolita Fashion
Lolita fashion (ロリータ・ファッション, rorīta fasshon) is a subculture from Japan that is highly influenced by Victorian clothing and styles from the Rococo period. A very distinctive property of Lolita fashion is the aesthetic of cuteness. This clothing subculture can be categorized into three main sub styles: 'gothic,' 'classic,' and 'sweet.' Many other sub styles such as 'sailor', 'country', 'hime' (princess), 'ero' (erotic), 'guro' (grotesque), 'qi' and 'wa' (based on traditional Chinese and Japanese dress), 'punk', 'shiro' (white), 'kuro' (black), and 'steampunk' lolita also exist. - Wikipedia
For more information about the Lolita Fashion sub-styles, please read this article.
This subculture tries to capture the innocence of youth, and the nostalgia of the 19th century. Its main goal was to cover a lot of bodies with aesthetic cuteness. Japanese initially called it Otome-Kei or Kawai style, but over time, they decided to use the name Lolita (ro-ri-ta) because it sounded so cute in Japanese. Through fashion magazines, the name became known and widely used and is still used today.
Covers of Otome-Kei or Gothic Lolita fashion magazines:
The standard attire for Lolita Fashion is a Knee-length puffy jumper skirt with a blouse or a knee-length one-piece, Maryjane shoes, a pair of cute tights or socks, and a headpiece.
A Lolita outfit is composed of basic components. These can be broken down into head, top, bottom, inner, legs, and feet. Each element is essential in creating the proper Lolita aesthetic, but as you will see, there is much room for variety.
A Lolita always adds decorations to her hair because it would be a waste of surface if not covered with a bow. The traditional headpiece is a headdress, which may come in various shapes and sizes, but is usually rectangular so that it can be arched over the head like a headband. Alice bows are also popular: this is a large bow made on the top of the head. Smaller bows, such as those on barrettes and elastic bands, can also be used if a less strong look is desired. Hair corsages are more common in Classic Lolita, and so are vintage-style hats.
There are three basic setups to wear.
1)You can wear a JSK with a blouse.
Generally speaking, Lolita Fashion aims to minimize exposed skin. So, shoulders should be covered as well. Most jumper skirts are worn over the blouse. The typical Lolita blouse has buttons in the front and the collar is traditionally rounded in Peter Pan style.
2)You can wear a one-piece.
There is no need for a blouse in this case because the one-piece has sleeves.
3)You can wear a cutsew with a skirt.
A cutsew is like a Lolita T-shirt. They are usually worn for Casual Lolita, as they are very toned down compared to most Lolita clothing. A typical cutsew is plain, with puffy short sleeves, neckties and perhaps adorned with a Lolita motif print. Sometimes stores will also offer cutsew dresses that are very plain-looking.
- The ideal Lolita silhouette is bell-shaped, whether she is wearing a dress or a skirt. This shape is achieved by the petticoats and bloomers beneath. Therefore, a skirt that does not fit enough petticoat underneath to achieve this shape is usually an inappropriate style. In addition, a Lolita skirt should not be shorter than 2 inches above the knee.
- An often ignored but vital key to a proper Lolita's attire. Bloomers and petticoats should top every new Lolita's shopping list. A proper petticoat is necessary to achieve that bell shape essential to the Lolita silhouette, while bloomers are necessary to retain a young Lolita's modesty.
- Although a Lolita dress may expose her knees, A Lolita tends not to expose her legs as regularly as it would be inappropriate. Generally, a good practice is to cover the legs at least to the knee, which means wearing knee-high socks. Other options include knee-high socks, stockings, and opaque tights. Sheer tights tend to be too "sexy" for Lolita, and ankle socks, especially those with lace, can evoke irrelevant subcultures such as Sissy and are less flattering on people's legs.
- Although a Lolita dress may expose her knees, A Lolita tends not to expose her legs regularly as it would be considered inappropriate. Generally, a good practice is to cover the legs at least to the knee, which means wearing knee-high socks. Other options include stockingsand opaque tights. Sheer tights tend to be too "sexy" for Lolita, and ankle socks, especially those with lace, can evoke irrelevant subcultures such as Sissy and are less flattering on people's legs.
- The traditional footwear of choice for Lolitas is the Mary Jane, but similar options are available. Although flats may be an option, a proper Lolita shoe should feature a closed, rounded toe and chunky, thick heels or platforms.
A. NOT the Book Lolita
Lolita Fashion has nothing to do with the book Lolita written by Vladimir Nabokov or the related movie based on the novel. The novel is notable for its controversial subject. Lolita Fashion has nothing to do with child eroticization, dressing like a child, or any form of pedophilia. It is simply a modern fashion.
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In the west, Lolita fashion is almost always referred to as "Lolita fashion," with "fashion" added to differentiate between it and the novel.
The English-speaking community started using the term EGL, which stands for Elegant Gothic Lolita. In the early days of Lolita fashion, this was an umbrella term used for all Lolita, even if it didn't resemble what we generally think of when it comes to gothic. In my opinion, EGL is a great term to use. It's well established, and it will lead you to accurate results. But when it comes down to explaining what EGL stands for, you still can't escape that word - lolita.
When people ask, "is Lolita fashion anything like the book?" They're generally referring to Vladimir Nabokov's Lolita. However, there are actual books about Lolita fashion. For example, So Pretty Very Rotten is a collection of essays and comics about actual Lolita fashion and community. - LovelyLor
B. NOT Fetish
Lolita Fashion is just the clothes we wear. As we know, we can't tell about a person by the clothes they wear. Likewise, you can't tell their sexual orientation or gender identity from what they wear. This is just one of the numerous misconceptions about Lolita Fashion. It's wrong because people being obsessed with something doesn't mean that it is a fetish in itself.
There are so many different fashion styles, and people wear different styles of clothes for different reasons. Therefore, people who are not familiar with Lolita fashion should be less speculative and discrediting. The only way to know what someone is wearing is to ask them, don't assume.
C. NOT Living Dolls
The idea of living dolls became popular around 2010 when Valeria Lukyanova gained attention for her Barbie-like appearance.
The living dolls are just a misunderstanding of Japanese kawaii fashion. They have the commonality of Japanese kawaii style clothing, and they also have similar looks to the Victorian era dolls. This is because the Victorian era dolls were copying the fashion of that era, and Victorian-era also inspired lolita fashion. Other than that, both have nothing in common.
As a woman, I do not like the name "living doll." Dolls are inanimate objects, and it would make us less human to be called living dolls. Suppose you identify as a living doll; it's fine. But make it clear that this is your personal preference, and it does not represent the entire community.
D. NOT Cosplay
Lolita fashion is not cosplay. This is 100% true.
Lolita fashion is a street style that originated in Japan. When you're wearing it, you are still yourself. You are putting on clothes, just like you would in any fashion, to represent yourself and present yourself in a way that you enjoy.
Cosplay, however, is when you are trying to replicate a fictional character, and you are presenting yourself as a fictional character.
There are times when both mix because there are fictional characters who wear Lolita fashion. But when you are replicating them and presenting them, you're not wearing Lolita. You are representing that character.
There is also cosplay Lolita or Lolita cosplay where people create a cosplay and then use Lolita pieces to help represent that character, but they're still presenting that character.
And then there's also character-inspired Lolita which takes more abstract ideas to represent a character through a Lolita fashion coordinate, but that person is still being themselves.
I think what it ultimately comes down to is that people mix the two, but you need to ask yourself, Is this a cosplay? Or is this a Lolita fashion coordinate? In the end, the main question remains, are you representing a character, or are you representing yourself? - Lovelylor
1)NO Naked Shoulder
The main goal of Lolita Fashion is to cover a lot of bodies with a cute dress. Especially when you wear a JSK (Jumper Skirt), it's inappropriate not to wear a blouse under the straps. You can also choose a cutsew or cardigan to go with your straps dress.
2)Avoid Wearing a Lolita Dress Without a Basic Fullset
A basic fullest of a Lolita Fashion includes a dress(a Jumper Skirt with a blouse, a one-piece), a pair of cute socks or tights, Maryjane shoes, and headpieces. You can go without a headpiece, but cute socks and shoes that match the style of the Lolita dress are essential.
3)Stick to One Style at First
It's expensive to do a style change. When you are just starting, you need to be sure what style you're currently into. Once you put all the pink stuff together and see something like a lavender dress next month, you can mix that lavender dress with your pink accessories, and it won't be a problem. You don't have to buy a whole new wardrobe. But if you choose Sweet and then you find out that you want something Gothic, you'll have to buy a whole new outfit before you can wear it. You have to buy shoes, socks, tops, and headpieces that match the Gothic style. Sometimes the colors don't match, and the patterns don't match. So, if you're going to choose a style, think about it before you start buying things.
4)Be Careful of Getting stuff from Mainstream Fashion
When you're starting, it's not a good idea to try and get your Lolita stuff from mainstream shops. This is because most of the time they don't work. When starting, you will think anything that looks cute would work, but it doesn't. So until you're more confident and know what you're looking for, just avoid mixing Lolita Fashion with mainstream fashion when shopping for your outfit and putting things together.
Sometimes, you can find amazing things, like thrift things, that are just absolutely perfect for what you want to do. But you're unsure of what is loliable (Lolita and usable, used when an item is not necessarily made for Lolita but can be used in coordination) and what isn't. For example, the bag on the right below is more loliable than the one on the left. So it's better not to buy from mainstream shops because you might make a mistake.
If you find the perfect pastel socks, they are super cute, but they're most likely not going to go with your coordinate. Besides, it is very hard to match normal fashion shoes with Lolita fashion. So when you're just starting, make sure to only buy from places where the shoes are specifically made for Lolita fashion because it is really hard to find shoes that go well with a Lolita dress.
We don't like to mix fashion that is primarily sexy with Lolita, which is primarily not sexy. So a newbie Lolita should stop over-explaining to people because it's unnecessary.
You can give some basic background information on Lolita Fashion; like it's a subculture fashion from Japan and just clothes with nothing else attached. However, it is unnecessary to over-explain because you may seem weird. Besides, you don't have to justify your sense of dressing to anyone.